This past week, I had the privilege of attending an all-day conference, and the very first speaker was Jesse Itzler. If you don’t know his story, I highly recommend looking him up, it’s incredible and inspiring. I walked away with pages of notes, but I want to share a few that really stuck with me, and why they matter.
Disappointment Is a Part of Life
Jesse shared that it took him 15 tries before a record company agreed to record his song. On the 16th try, he finally got a “yes.” Most of us would have quit long before then. His story was a reminder that disappointment is not failure, it’s a stepping stone. If we truly believe in something, we have to keep showing up until it works out. And as parents, we shouldn’t shield our kids from disappointment. It’s through those struggles that they learn resilience.
One Idea, One Meeting, One Relationship Away
We are always just one idea, one meeting, or one relationship away from changing the course of our lives. That truth hit me hard, because it challenges us to ask: Who do we need to know? What rooms do we need to step into? On that note, I love connecting people. If there’s someone you’d like to meet or get in front of, please let me know. I’d be happy to help!
Do It With Your Whole Heart
Jesse also reminded us that if we’re not pouring our soul into something, then why are we doing it at all? This lines up with one of my favorite verses from Colossians 3:23-24:
“Whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men; knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance.”
It’s a reminder for me to pursue excellence in everything, otherwise, I’m just wasting time.
Compliment, Console, Congratulate
We live in such a fast-paced world that it’s easy to overlook opportunities to encourage others. But taking the time to compliment, console, or congratulate someone matters. These small acts of kindness always circle back to bless you.
Create Memories, Not Just Milestones
One of my favorite takeaways was this: don’t get so busy chasing success that you forget what really matters. At the end of life, no one looks back and says, “I wish I worked more.” What we treasure are the memories, the moments, and the people we love. Don’t miss out on those.
Don’t Quit
Jesse shared a story about running a 100-mile race with a Navy SEAL, who repeated over and over: “I will not quit.” That phrase stuck with me. Don’t give your pain a voice. Keep going.
Practice Gratitude, Even When It’s Hard
Life will always bring challenges, but gratitude changes our perspective. There is always something to be thankful for, even in the toughest seasons.
Words Matter
The way we speak to others is important, but the way we speak to ourselves may matter even more. Be intentional with your words, and be especially mindful of your inner voice.
Be Present With Your Kids
This one touched me deeply. Never be too tired for your kids. If they ask to play, to spend time, or to talk, say yes. Those moments don’t come back.
Live Life on Offense
Most people live on defense, reacting to whatever comes their way. Instead, be intentional. Plan for joy. Plan for rest. Plan for play, with your kids, your spouse, and your friends.
As I reflect on these lessons, I’m reminded of how quickly time goes by. Watching my kids grow has made me realize how fleeting our days really are.That’s why I want to be intentional with my relationships, my time, and the impact I leave.
This month gives us a perfect reminder to pause and give thanks. And I want to say that I am thankful for you. I truly appreciate the trust you’ve placed in me and my team, and I pray that this Thanksgiving is a blessed time for you and your loved ones.
With gratitude,
Janine