Have you heard about that fascinating study suggesting that the most popular people aren’t always the ones who are most liked but rather, they’re the ones who like the most people? Think about that for a second. What does it really mean?
Turns out, popularity isn’t just about being popular, it’s about being friendly and genuinely interested in others. It’s in your control!
What This Means for Us
If you want more friends, the key is simple (and kind of profound): get out there and be friendly! Like a lot of people. Ask questions. Be curious. Be open.
It reminds me of something I do on my podcast: at the end of each episode, I hit guests with a series of fun rapid-fire questions. You didn’t think I’d spill them all right now, did you? You’ll have to listen to an episode to catch them but trust me, that’s the magic. We might be diving into serious, deep topics, and then bam I throw in those lighthearted, personal questions and suddenly the mood lifts. Guests light up with a smile. It’s like social glitter for their souls.
Isn’t that just the best? It’s a little pause of joy amid the thoughtful conversation, and it opens the door to warmth and connection.
So, What’s the Real Lesson Here?
As we navigate life and relationships, isn’t it comforting and motivating that likability is within our grasp? Who doesn’t want friends? I mean, everyone! If you’re curious, warm, and interested in others, that simple approach can make you more likable.
I love this idea: like others, and you’ll be liked in return.